As she feminizes you, Dom de Luxury will work on your oral skills. She does this because breaking down all the parts of your former masculinity is important. To rebuild, one must sometimes tear down.
One assignment you are likely to get that requires daily practice is deep-throating. Properly done, deep-throating is not dangerous. It does require frequent practice, and you can't learn it in sessions. I found this challenging but eventually succeeded.
Controlling Your Gag Reflex
The difficulty with deep throating is that it triggers our gag reflex, and we need to vomit. There are trigger points in the mouth and throat that cause the throat to contract when touched. About 1/3 of the world doesn't have a gag reflex. These are the world's natural deep-throaters. The rest of us are going to have to learn to control it. A small group of people has a powerful gag reflex. You can still do it if you are one of them, but it will take a bit more time. Anyone can learn to control their gag reflex; sword swallowers have been deep-throating much more dangerous objects than dildos for centuries.
Once you have your gag reflex under control, any remaining issue is psychological. Deal with this - Dom de Luxury can help you with these in your sessions. Stick with her, and you will be over them in short order.
Dildos are soft and not likely to damage your throat, so start with them. Anything you stick in your mouth should be washed clean. Depending on where it has been, you might also wish to sterilize it.
To sterilize a dildo, soak it in a 10% solution of chlorine bleach for 15 minutes. A 10% bleach solution is 9 parts of water with 1 part of bleach added. Your "part" can be any size you wish. For example, 900 ml of water to 100 ml of bleach will give you a liter of 10% chlorine bleach solution.
Let's get to it.
Now that you have a clean dildo, this is how you learn to deep throat:
- Place the dildo into your mouth and slowly move it towards the back of your throat.
- When it gets back far enough, unless you are one of those people with no gag reflex, it will kick in, and you'll want to gag. Don't try to force it past this point. Keep it where it is, and try to suppress your gag reflex by breathing through your nose and keeping your throat relaxed.
- Breathing is key. It helps more than anything. You will find that some days this comes easier than others. Just keep at it, and it will eventually become effortless for you.
- For the first week, leave it there for 10 seconds. Don't try to move it in or out; leave it at the point where it triggers your gag reflex.
- Do this every day for a week. It should get easier towards the end of the week, and your gag reflex won't be as sensitive as when you started.
- By the end of the second or third week, your gag reflex will be much less sensitive. When you notice this, you can slowly move the dildo in and out of your mouth, so it keeps brushing against your gag reflex point.
- Warning! The first time you do this, it will really stimulate your gag reflex, and you might even feel like throwing up. Stay calm, focus on your breathing and relax your throat. It will get better. Visualizing Dom de Luxury helps.
- After another week or two (or longer if you have an extreme gag reflex), you will find that you can deep-throat easily without gagging or coughing.
That's all there is to it. If you have a long dildo, you need to tilt your back so your mouth and throat make a straight line. You may have seen sword swallowers do this. It's the same idea. Sword swallowers are the world's best deep-throaters, have long, happy lives, and should make you realize that doing this with a nice, unsharp dildo is not going to damage you.
One final thing.
This is not permanent. If you stop practicing, your gag reflex will return. So you need to keep your skills sharp by practicing, even if Dom de Luxury moves on to other parts of your training, because she will come back to this, and you don't want to disappoint her.
As always, I hope this will be helpful in your training. Drop me a note if you're in the mood!